Are you ready?

I've found myself torn about the idea of whether or not I'm ready to go through with an important decision or not. I have struggled with hesitation and/or impulsivity in my behaviour from not being able to differentiate, leading to anxiety, poor choices and disappointment. What does it mean to be ready?

Of course there are things I do not recommend waiting for until you are "ready". What is the difference? You can ask yourself:

Are you afraid to do it because you are insecure or just truly unprepared because you don't understand the situation fully and don't have the tools to navigate the consequences?

Don't get me wrong, it's vital to take a jump into the unknown to challenge yourself even if you don't think you are ready and you may be pleasantly surprised to see how you can rise to the occasion. Stepping out of your comfort zone is where all the growth happens. While I support this, forcing yourself to do something you are truly prepared for, for "growth" can be the wrong choice- a spiritual and emotional bypassing. This is where the line between uncontrolled ego and spirit gets blurred. this is where burn-out happens. Injuries. Illness. Depression. Regression. And maybe this is a big part of your journey, to make that mistake so you can learn and come full circle but it's not always necessary.

It's OKAY to take your time in your process of growth and not push beyond what is necessary so you can make SUSTAINABLE change. These choices should aim to liberate you from inner narratives that no longer serve you, as opposed to complete destabilization, disempowerment and energy drain at the expense of yourself and others.

It's OKAY to take a step back, re-assess your position and take time to make the next move. Some seeds take more time to sprout and need more nourishment, and different kinds of care. The timeline is unique to the individual. This does not mean making excuses, procrastinating or avoidance. Appreciate the opportunities that present themselves and take responsibility for the goals you set and actions you choose to take. But know the difference between this and rushing to do something for the sake of growth or needing to prove a point to yourself or others. You may upset people along the way but know that will happen regardless of setting these boundaries or not. Remember that our individual process won't look like anyone else we know or see. A scarcity mindset can disguise itself in many ways, even within the desire to better yourself. Being the best person in service for others is not synonymous with self-sacrifice. Being the best YOU for others means honouring yourself.

Be patient with yourself and respect the needs of your body, mind and spirit. Value your unique journey and pacing. Trust that your inner guide knows when, where and what to do. Hold the intention of this in your heart and you will be prepared to conquer whatever you face, ready or not.